This time of the year can be a fun and happy time, but it can also be an annoying time. When my children realize that Christmas is getting close, they start talking about nothing else than what they want on their Christmas Lists. Unfortunately for them, we are not millionaires and they do not get anything that they want. Here are some ways that I control Christmas Spending and bring the true spirit of Christmas into our homes.
- Decorating - pick a day to decorate your home for the season. I take time putting the nativity scenes in a special place and talking about Christmas. Play Christmas music and have a special treat.
- Make a Budget - I make a secret list on my computer for each child where I write down what I have bought for them and the cost. This helps me keep within my budget.
- Make Lists - I have each child write down what they want and then I review it with them. Toys or items that are very expensive or inappropriate are taken off the list. My children understand that there are items that we just can’t afford.
- Charity - Have your kids buy a toy for Toys for Tots or another charity. Explain to them that there are children who will receive nothing this year. At the Elementary School they have a “Giving Tree” which I encourage the children to participate in. They pick a tag from the tree and buy a toy for a child in need.
- Pick Names - If you have a large extended family, make a new tradition, pick names instead of giving to everyone. We do this with my siblings and my husband’s siblings as well.
- Make Traditions - Every year we get tickets to a play at the State Theater (and the tickets are only $6 each). This is a fun holiday tradition for our family. We also open on gift each on Christmas Eve. I let them open the gift I choose, which is always pajamas! They have something new and cozy to wear for Christmas Morning.
The Christmas Season can be hectic but enjoyable!






My daughter is a high school freshman. She is not old enough to get a “real” job, but I like to have a game plan before she starts asking. The appeal to having is job is MONEY. Almost every teen wants extra spending money in their pocket and since Mom and Dad don’t grow money on trees, they figure that they will need a job to afford all those extra luxuries.
I have two daughters, ages 9 and 14. It is not too hard to guess that they like to shop for clothing! Before I knew what was happening, their closets and drawers will filled with clothing that they seldom wore. I started establishing some rules for clothing purchases and here is the process we follow at our house.

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